The Episcopal Church

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I struggled with how to title this post and what exactly I wanted to focus on, but decided just to start by talking about my church, the Episcopal Church, before getting on to the issue at hand.  I grew up in a variety of conservative fundamentalist evangelical churches.  If that’s not enough labels for ya, some of them were also Pentecostal.  It was a decent amount of variety within a basically fundamentalist Biblical literalism framework.  I’ll save my struggles and questions for another post, but the point of this post is that almost 3 years ago I started attending an Episcopal church and 2 years ago I was confirmed in that church in a lovely ceremony.  Also sitting next to me and joining me as confirmands (actually, I think at least one of them was only being received from another church) were two lesbian women in a committed relationship.  These women (and other gays and lesbians) are openly welcome in my particular church and (as far as I can tell) no one bats an eye.  To me it’s lovely, coming from churches where they would be condemned as the worst kind of sinners and at best given the opportunity to repent and go through some sort of homosexuality rehab (as if it’s something that can and should be “cured”).

So part of the appeal of the Episcopal Church was this open acceptance regardless of sexual orientation.  There were other reasons of course–I love the traditional liturgy and the observance of church seasons.  I also love the focus on social justice and fighting poverty.  And of course I was also excited about belonging to a church which regularly ordains women for service and is currently led by a woman (presiding bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori).  While in the churches of my childhood women are still often not allowed behind the pulpit (or many times even in front of a Sunday School class that includes men or even teenage boys), it seems to be a non-issue in the Episcopal Church (though I could be wrong as I’m still a newbie).  Meanwhile the real issue Episcopalians are struggling with is how to deal with gays and lesbians.

This week is the 2009 General Convention of the Episcopal Church and it seems to be a big deal.  I’ve been eagerly following events as well as I can, at least hanging out reading #ecgc tweets on Twubs.com and then clicking on links like crazy trying to wrap my brain around whatever is going on out in Anaheim.  One apparently big deal involves a resolution DO25.  From what I can tell, the point of DO25 is to affirm that the Episcopal Church wants to remain within the Anglican Communion but it also acknowledges the presence of gays and lesbians in committed relationships within our church.  It’s actually a bit confusing because it also says: “The acceptance of the ministry of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender persons is not settled in The Episcopal Church or in the Anglican Communion.“  This baffled me a bit, but further research seems to show that the purpose is to overturn another previous resolution–BO33 which established some kind of moratorium on ordaining gay bishops (presumably that came about some time after Bishop Gene Robinson was ordained).  Another source says it is means the Episcopal church is affirming gay clergy.  It seems to be kicking up a bit of a fuss with the more conservative elements of the Anglican Communion and it also seems to be welcomed by GLBT tweeters and bloggers.  So perhaps it is more radical than it appears to me and I’ll take it as a positive sign.  The best explanation of its purpose that I’ve read comes from Twitterer (no idea what to call Tweetheads) and fellow Episcopalian Sarah G. Bennett.  She wrote: “What I understand is D025 is a snapshot of the reality of our church, today. A “this is who we are” so to speak. No more, no less.”  I like that.

Anyway, as for DO25, it passed the House of Deputies (which is made up of clergy and laity, I think) yesterday and today it passed the House of Bishops, but with amendments.  Now it seems it will go back to the House of Deputies for approval again because of the amendments.  Here are some details and here is the text of the amended resolution.

Meanwhile the rest of the Anglican Communion may not be so pleased with us.  Apparently, Archbishop Rowan Williams has already expressed “regrets” about DO25 and from what little this newbie knows, the more conservative elements of the Anglican Communion (some within the U.S. but many more in other nations) will no doubt have a lot of negative reactions.  There’s already been some kind of schism within the Episcopal Church as some churches have apparently declared themselves the Anglican Church of North America.  Oy, it’s really confusing for a newbie Episcopalian.  All I know is I embrace the warm and inclusive church that has welcomed not only my family and me (a heterosexual mother and housewife) but also those who don’t fit the traditional churchy mold.  I think it’s wonderful that there are churches like mine who reach out with open arms where other churches would reject and condemn.  I also spent a couple years in England attending an Anglican church, so I also hope that the Episcopalian open arms don’t lead us out of communion with the rest of the Anglican Communion.  I wish they would embrace us as with open arms as well.


To Think I Found this on Facebook

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Ah, facebook links. What I found the most inspiring about the MJ service apparently was the most offensive.  Ever been to a funeral where the minister didn’t mention that the deceased was in a better place?  I haven’t.  Odd timing and disrespectful to me to offer not the glimpse of peace with God–but to preach condemnation and eternal suffering to those in grief.

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Can you pick and choose?

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I know people who say that one can not pick and choose what to accept when it comes to Christianity.

I respond–I am a Christian. I am a follower of Christ.  I don’t think that happened in the instant I walked forward at camp and was “saved”.

Does one have to accept the Bible as historical? What about other sticky issues? I don’t think that many of the details that people often fight about are the root of faith.

What about you?


Doubt Necessary?

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In a recent lesson, my Sunday School teacher mentioned doubt. Do any of us struggle with doubt–and are willing to admit it in church? I admitted it, although I doubt it is a shock for anyone. I have been open in my questions and doubts.

The author Anne Lamott has written, the opposite of faith is not doubt, the opposite of faith is certainty. Faith has to be something that we can not be certain about–there would be no need for faith. I was reminded of her this morning, that sentence in her book really took hold of me.

Doubt is a part of faith.


When to comment, when to keep quiet?

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I have friends with a wide range of opinions on religion, politics, life in general. Sometimes, more often than I should, I feel the need to explain my point of view. There are times where I just want them to see merit to other ways of thinking.

Today on facebook, a friend listed five things that she wants to go away forever. One is sin–ok, I can see that. Another one is the liberal media. I quickly thought out a well educated response–posted it and quickly deleted it.

What do you do? Try to inform others–or allow them to go along their merry way, but offend you.


Sarkozy sarcrazy?

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French President Nicolas Sarkozy spoke out strongly today to lawmakers about banning Muslim women from wearing burqas or niqab in France.

 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/06/22/sarkozy-burqas-are-not-we_n_218920.html

I agree with the President’s sentiments that the burqa is demeaning and degrading to women.  However, I don’t know that such a grand public denouncement and forceful legislative action are the most effective means for addressing this issue.  I know many Muslim women wear a headscarf as a choice and feel empowered by it.  (I doubt that attitudes toward the burqa are as liberating.)  I did not agree with the ban of religious clothing (Muslim headscarves, Jewish skullcaps, Christian crosses) from public school in 2004.  Admittedly, I am not an expert or eyewitness of French secular culture and values.  I also don’t follow many blogs, so I don’t know what others are saying about this.  Anyone have an opinion or additional insight to this issue?


more spiritual books

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I have benefitted from many of the books mentioned by Lainie. In my recent years, I have been particularly inspired by Marcus Borg and his incredible gift for expressing spiritual truths. Three memoir writers already mentioned, Lauren Winner, Anne Lamott, and Frank Schaeffer are also wonderful, enlightened writers with fascinating stories to tell.

In college, I was introduced to a lot of popular hot-at-the-moment books, mostly Max Lucado and Bible studies. I even worked at a Christian bookstore, the kind that are actually more like Christian Stuffstores. Thankfully, I stumbled onto a few important books in the process such as Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s Cost of Discipleship and C. S. Lewis’s Mere Christianity. I read more books by both and also found Richard Foster and Dallas Willard to be challenging.

Around the time I graduated from college, I picked up the book Rediscovering Church by Bill Hybels, pastor of the large suburban Chicago church, Willow Creek. This book shook my concepts of what church could (and should) be and changed the way I thought about Christian community. More than a decade later, I had a second paradigm-shifting encounter reading Christianity for the Rest of Us by Diana Butler Bass. As the former book influenced my last decade, I predict the latter will play significantly into my church involvement going forward.

There are so many others, but I’ll just mention two more whose work has resonated with me, Parker Palmer and William Sloane Coffin. Currently, I’m discovering contemporary feminist writers and I’m sure I’ll have plenty to discuss about those in the future.


Father’s Day

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I was raised in a conservative Southern Baptist church. My mother had been brought up in this tradition and I had no reason to think that either my parents thought anything different than what I was taught at church.

My mom’s faith was strong until the day she died. She had cancer and accepted her illness remarkably. She often said that God knew from the moment she was born when she would die. This was her life, and honestly, she used her illness to make relationships and share her faith with her doctors and nurses.

My father would on occasion mention he didn’t quite accept the Baptist ways. He, although still quite conservative, didn’t accept a seven day literal creation. He said once that God’s Will would be for the best life possible for His Children–but sometimes things happen differently. It isn’t God who wants the bad things to happen.

I think my Dad is open to me making sense of it all in my own way. He accepts the journey that faith can be.

Does the faith of  our parents play a role in our own faith?


Spiritual Books

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Books have been an important part of my ongoing spiritual journey. Here are just a few of them.

The Meaning of Jesus: Two Visions by Marcus J. Borg and N.T. Wright

Girl Meets God: On the Path to a Spiritual Life by Lauren Winner
Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis
The Heart of Christianity: Rediscovering a Life of Faith by Marcus J. Borg
Addicted to Mediocrity: Contemporary Christians and the Arts by Franky Schaeffer
Walking on Water: Reflections on Faith and Art by Madeleine L’Engle
20 Hot Potatoes Christians Are Afraid to Touch by Tony Campolo
Till We Have Faces by C.S. Lewis
and oh yeah–the Bible–my personal favorite versions are the NRSV and the TNIV. I also like the KJV when I just want to enjoy the language.

I know I’m forgetting some important ones here, but these are the first to leap to mind. They are kind of an odd mix, and I think I’ve edited out some that were once important to me, but which have faded in importance as I have changed spiritually.

How about you, Audra and Lynnea?  I know you both are big readers, too.  I probably have fewer books than either of you–I’m a big reader but I’m addicted to fiction.  I confess to having a bit of a short attention span with drier tomes.

Anyone else out there reading this?  Feel free to chime in and tell us what books have changed your life.


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